Follow the preparation guide above and you should get off to a good start!
Don’t be too rigid, if your ideas don’t work out, try something else. Maybe you wanted to kick a football around the park and they don’t feel like it – perhaps you can get them to change their minds but also be prepared to do something else instead.
Remember, focus on what they need from you rather than what you want from the visit.
Don’t put pressure on them to decide if they want more direct contact with you immediately but make sure they know you would like this if they want. You can phone them or their mother later or on another day to discuss whether and when you will next meet.
Next: Tips for direct contact!