Make the most of whatever time you have
Of course, you will want to spend as much time as possible with your children – so this may seem like a no-brainer. However, Christmas can often mean visiting people and entertaining others. If you aren’t careful, you might find that Christmas is over without you having had any one-to-one time. Plan you time together carefully – blocking out time just being with and playing with your children.
Watch your drinking
Never drink too much alcohol when you’re looking after your children. At Christmas it is easy to lose count and drink more than you planned. Remember that alcohol is a depressant. It can make you feel upset or angry. Don’t spoilt the day for your children if they are with you. If you are apart from them, make sure you’re sober for their Christmas call. Drink sensibly and in moderation.
Don’t get try to buy your children’s love with expensive presents
Try not to get into a competition with your ex-partner over who gives the biggest present. If you can, talk to your ex-partner to find out what they are getting for your children – this stops you from getting the same thing. Find out what your children want, but don’t feel obliged to spend a lot of money. A thoughtful gift that they will get long term use from is better than an expensive toy that can lose its appeal soon after Christmas day.